15 Aug 2012

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What It Means to Follow
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“Follow me” – Jesus, over and over in the Gospels

When I heard the topic for this month’s synchroblog–”Follow”, I immediately thought of something Richard Rohr said in his book Breathing Underwater, centered on the spirituality of the 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous.  He said “Jesus never said ‘worship me.’  Rather,  when he was calling his disciples he repeatedly said ‘follow me.’”

I have a theory that we’d much rather worship Jesus than follow Jesus.  And for most of us, worship means singing, praying, reading the Bible, gaining insight and information, and “going to church.”  These things, while valuable, are far easier than actually following Jesus. 

I know this well in my own life.  For years I was the consummate good christian woman and knew how to do, say, and believe all the right things that supposedly-dedicated-followers-of-Jesus-should.   It wasn’t that hard to do, really.  You show up, mimic what other people are saying and doing, and go with the flow.

That flow tends to lead us toward gaining a lot of beliefs about God but very little experience in living out God’s ways.

When Jesus said “Follow me”, I really don’t think he meant “go to church, sing some songs, listen to an awesome sermon by a charismatic preacher, and hang around a lot of people who believe the same things.”

I think he meant be like him and do what he did. 

And here’s what he did:

Freely restored dignity where it had been lost 

Happily dined with sinners

Sharply called out injustice

Publicly advocated for the oppressed

Humbly washed others’ feet

Compassionately offered healing to the sick

Privately rested when he was tired

Bravely challenged the religious system

Calmly broke through social norms to promote equality

Openly stood alongside the persecuted

Willingly sacrificed his comfort for others

Repeatedly pointed people toward what was most important–love. 

When I look at this list, I have to laugh a little (before I cry), especially in light of the whole crazy Chick-Fil-A bruhaha.  Christians aren’t known for these things.  We’re known publicly for all kinds of things that aren’t reflective of the life of Jesus.  We’re known for standing against the marginalized instead of for them.  For pointing the finger at others’ specks instead of looking at the logs in our own eye.  For excluding instead of including.  For stripping dignity instead of restoring it. For ugliness and hate instead of beauty and love.

One of the things I love about Jesus is he didn’t expect his followers to believe a whole lot of things before following him.

His call was to action, not belief. 

And he showed us what actions mattered.  These actions are not going to get us in trouble in a world-desperate-for-hope-and-healing, but they are going to get us in trouble with the religious leaders who’d rather we focused on something a little easier (and in their control)–like who believes what. 

My hope for the future of Christ-following in the years to come is that we wouldn’t continually be known as the “judgmental, rude, cliquey, self-centered stone-throwers.”  Instead, we’d be known as “the “weirdest, craziest risk takers and lovers of people in town.” 

Yeah, it’s time to redeem what it means to follow Jesus.

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  1. A most wonderful piece of writing, thank you.
    I have read a number of Rohr’s book each morning as a contemplative practice with a close friend. Being a Recovered Alcoholic, I especially liked Breathing Underwater. What AA demonstrates is a Spirit of Action as a way of life rather than a System of Belief. The belief will only be realized (“made aware of manifest”) through experience in the world, as you pointed out. I act my way into right thinking, not think my way to right action. This demands risk. God is spelled D-A-R-E.

    I feel the same way as concerns worshiping Jesus: when Peter was motivated by this, Jesus said, “Get behind me, Satan.” We are TO BE as Christ was in the world, not adore as Christ was in the world. There is no WWJD? to ask. WDJD is the question, What did Jesus do? Jesus did one and only one thing: totally surrendered to the direction and strength of his father. He did act on his beliefs, values, and standards; he allowed by the power of spirit God to act through him with love. He never had to ask himself, What would Jehovah do? And if Jesus said we would do “greater works,” did he ever ask what he would do if he were you?

    Two signs about the Church at the End Times: a) the love for many will grow cold; b) there will be much complaint. Yet this seems to be presently standardized practice, as if the very role of the Church. Richard Rohr also talks a great deal about Restorative Justice over Retributive Justice, or over what is the norm of the world and some Christians.

    Many Christians look to improve themselves, make themselves a better person, in order to have a better relationship with Christ, yet the self must die daily. For me, it is more about reduction of this self we have created in order to allow the new spirit in us room to grow. There is nothing to improve about self and God cares nothing for this self we have created, for therein is the source of all our earthly woes. There is one thing and one thing only we can or need to improve: our conscious contact with God.

    Whoa, sorry, I am getting way too preachy. I much prefer your framework, Kathy; you talk human and that is what people need most: a human Christ.

    • Correction: where I say “He did act on his beliefs…” I meant to write “He did NOT act on his beliefs…” Knowing God through love is not a belief in God. Love is our deepest knowledge of truth.

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