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As most of American society knows, the upheaval at Penn State has brought to the surface many deep emotions – all of which are justifiable. What isn’t exactly justifiable, however, are the choices some are opting to make based on those emotions.
Many words have been flying around Facebook, Twitter, blogs and overall mass media about the dissent many hold for Joe Paterno…and even supporters of him. Many of these words have disheartened me due to the fact many of them have come from the fingertips of Christians.
As Christians, we’re called to hold fast to a higher standard (His); not a conceited standard.
In engrossing myself this term in school in the Book of Genesis, some amazing insights have been revealed – ones I never even realized before. Such as in Gen 4:8-16 where Cain experiences God’s grace upon Him…despite the fact that he murdered his own brother in cold, premeditated blood.
Though the consequences Cain had to endure we’re rough, God still let Cain live – plus he protected Him! This unto itself is a grace that is absolutely baffling to the logical mind of us humans. It’s something that’s quite difficult for us to even fathom, for sincerely…isn’t giving grace simply “letting people off the hook?”
Absolutely not.
It’s interesting to note that the Hebrew word for grace, hen, translates out to be “favor”…just as the Greek word for grace, charis, translates out to be the exact same word.
Grace is simply being in God’s favor…to be chosen for a purpose that is His to be fulfilled through the ones He chooses. Therefore, grace, like forgiveness, doesn’t reveal weakness…it reveals a strength unlike any other.
It takes strength to not react to the person who caused harm to you, or someone you know.
It takes strength, in turn, to love those who have harmed you, or someone you know…and turn the other cheek.
God could have taken Cain’s life from him as “payment” for his actions toward his brother, but God took a higher road. He took the very one He created. The very one, as Christians, we truly need to be always seeking to emulate.
Certainly, what Joe Paterno did was wrong. He should have said something right when these incidents occurred. Due to his lie of omission, his punishment is justified…his being fired as head coach of the football team. However, what isn’t justified is the onslaught of judgment calls being made on him, and/or his supporters, by those who embrace Christ.
Christ doesn’t condemn.
Christ doesn’t cast judgment.
Christ doesn’t hate anyone.
He loves. He accepts. He forgives. He extends grace.
So, now let’s discuss.
As Christians, how can we extend the same love, acceptance, forgiveness and grace He calls us to have toward others that do heinous things, or even let them happen without saying anything, without watering down our own passions…or averting the law? Is it even possible to do such?




Hello Marni, I have followed your blog for a little while but haven’t had the boldness to pipe up…
Matthew 18:6
‘But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged around his neck and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.’
Strong words, straight from Jesus. This discourse does not mention those who aid and abet or connive at such offences, or look the other way to protect their own position. Suffice it to say that God’s ways are not our ways…. there is an obvious dichotomy here, and a necessary one… we need systems of earthly law and order, else the world falls into utter chaos, and society needs to be protected from those who would do harm, especially to little ones…. but as to spiritual matters, we must not get into judgement, for we are strictly ordered to not judge others; on the contrary, we must consider our own sins, whatever they may be, and remember that we all need forgiveness. I have to throw myself on God’s mercy through the Cross every day because without it, I’m dead.
However, as to interpersonal forgiveness…. I am not a mother but I can imagine at least how I might feel if my son had been (sorry) sodomized in the showers…I think I would find it almost impossible to forgive the individual responsible for such a sin, not against myself, but my innocent child. I have a hard enough time forgiving people who offended me in a minor way, years ago… I confess I am still struggling. But Jesus says forgive we must. Let the judicial system determine guilt or innocence according to our laws, and punish if necessary, but leave Judgement of the soul to God for only He knows our hearts.
I must agree with you, Susan, in that it would be quite difficult to overlook a transgression such as what happened to these boys at Penn State to my own son. It would be very difficult, in fact…but this is where Christ, I have found out, calls us to live for Him, not for our own hearts and/or minds.
One thing I have found out about grace for us as humans…especially in the area of forgiveness and mercy…is that often times this is a process for us to go through to get to where we are living in forgiveness of a transgression that has been done to us or others we care about. It’s never an instaneous thing for us…we need to take things in steps to get to places of forgiveness. But it will never happen if we don’t intentionally choose the path of forgiveness from the beginning, averting judgement.
It is very tricky territory to live in this manner, for the law does work for the world – but as Christians, we live (spiritually) beyond the law. It is always a game of balance in scenarios like this.